Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
I liked my female friend but didn’t pursue it to protect our friendship. Now she’s into another friend who just returned, and I’ve developed a big crush on her—but she doesn’t feel the same about me. What should I do?
upvote 5 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

Move on

upvote 10 downvote
🍍
Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Okay your right but now I feel like our friendship is awkward what should I do

upvote 4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

well if she doesn’t know why is it awkward just asking

upvote 2 downvote
🍍
Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Ngl like the beginning of her liking him I was so distraught that I started treating her different acting cold towards her distancing myself etc

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

i mean it is what it is. obviously you can’t force someone to like you but you definitely can stay friends. have you ever apologized for acting cold? maybe that would help idk. you don’t have to say why ig

upvote 2 downvote
🍍
Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

It just hurts like shit because she used to talk about how it’s weird to flirt with people in the same friend group but then goes to try and talk to a friend in the same friend group like. And it’s like I know this guy friend he thinks she’s cute but doesn’t even like her at all. At least not the way that I like her. Now this friend has moved into college so it has me thinking what was it all for? Yk

upvote 1 downvote
🍍
Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I genuinely resent her bro I don’t know what to do

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You resent her for liking a diff guy??? You never said anything to her so how was she supposed to know? No one controls who they like and who they don’t like, in both cases here, you just have to move on. Get into therapy or distance yourself

upvote 1 downvote