Anonymous #1 1w

If we’re counting lying and leading people on that’s a very high percentage of attractive dude who aren’t that empathetic. Yikes.

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Anonymous #5 1w

Yeah it’s not really by definition, but if it wouldn’t have been enthusiastic consent without the manipulation, that’s still pretty rapey.

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Anonymous OP 1w

I don’t think using the word “rapey” is very useful here

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Anonymous #5 1w

Also women are always alert about men lying they’re not stupid. They very often know whats up but lie to themselves

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Anonymous #5 1w

I just heard the term enthusiastic consent recently, and it brought me back to when I would only say certain things when asked directly, not like about other people, or things that important, but I feel like shit knowing that it probably wouldn’t have been enthusiastic had I mentioned them. Now I mention important things right out of the gate, but I wanted to confront my fear about it.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Hey from man to man. Those thoughts are stupid. Also women are adults if they care to know about something they will ask. Also the whole framework of enthusiastic consent is flawed but thats a different conversation feel free to dm

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Anonymous #5 1w

Idk dude, girls are weird, I recently saw a TikTok of this girl saying her biggest fear was dying and her partner remarrying and being buried next to someone else. I can’t even fathom what that kind of connection to another person could do, or convince someone of. I’m just currently re-evaluating a lot of my actions in the past and those two things got me thinking.

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Anonymous OP 1w

I guarantee you most women are not having these thoughts like that’s actually insane and tbh not sure its totally serious. But for some reason you’re choosing to focus on them. You’re not responsible for someone’s insanity just bc they’re a girl!

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