Anonymous #1 17h

But male family members should stop when the child gains consciousness (considering its father/brother etc. daughter)

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Anonymous #1 17h

That’s interesting. So different rules for dad than Mom?

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Anonymous OP 17h

NO lmaoooo. I said both should stop when the child gains consciousness. I’m just saying my mom never stopped and I have no memory of my dad EVER doing that. So I can’t comment on if my dad did that how it would affect me but probably MUCH MUCH more

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Anonymous #2 16h

I’m guessing you don’t have kids yet. Trust me you can wear whatever you want at some stage they’re gonna decide they want to be naked more than clothed lol

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Anonymous #1 16h

Did you have siblings? Mind if I ask if you’re a man or a woman?

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Anonymous OP 16h

I’m a teacher. I work with preschoolers.

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Anonymous #2 16h

But do you have children of your own?

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Anonymous OP 16h

I raised my younger brother from when he was 3 because my parents were absent all the time. Do you have children?

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Anonymous OP 16h

That’s a really fucking creepy way of putting it

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Anonymous #2 16h

So no, you’re not a parent. That’s what I was wondering. Yes I have two kids. Are you going to keep down voting everything I say because if you are, you missed a comment up above. 😉

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Anonymous OP 16h

??? I'm not downvoting things. If you have two kids though maybe go take care of them instead of being on YikYak

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

If you think it’s creepy, you’re the one that’s sexualizing it. You’ve obviously never raised children.

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Anonymous OP 16h

I’m saying commenting at some point they are gonna want to be more naked then clothed lol is a very weird way to put that especially talking about minors

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Anonymous OP 16h

And I never said sexual I said creepy I think you saying that is fucking weird and I agree fully with 2

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Anonymous #2 16h

Have you heard of this thing called school? You claim that you raised your own brother, did he require constant Twenty four seven care? 🙄

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

Come back to me when you’ve raised kids. LOL

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Anonymous OP 16h

Not 24/7 for me as sometimes my grandma would help. But yes he required constant care. Also yes I have heard of school, I graduated college. Also your one viewpoint is of your kids. I work with many kids and see how their families act and how that changes their behavior. I have one student that constantly talks about sex and being naked as his dad brings a lot of women over and he has trauma from that.

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Anonymous OP 16h

Who tf are you to say I haven’t raised kids

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Anonymous #2 16h

Yeah Jesus wtf is wrong with you OP clearly 2 has experience raising a child wtf

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

It’s obvious you haven’t, especially when you act like you still are one. Probably a teenager, right? think you know everything. Everything is weird or creepy because you have zero life experience. 🙄

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Anonymous OP 16h

OP how old are you then?

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Anonymous OP 16h

No I’m a full adult but also I have had an uncle who was a pedophile so yes I’m aware of what things I think are creepy or not because things like that have been said to me so again do not fucking criticize me for saying hey that sounds weird

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Anonymous #2 16h

Correlation is not causation though.

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Anonymous OP 16h

So you’re saying because they didn’t give birth to a child that doesn’t mean they understand what it is to raise a child? So what are adopted parents not parents?

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Anonymous OP 16h

Do better instead of wasting your time arguing on YikYak.

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Anonymous OP 16h

In this case it is. His therapist and I have had multiple talks. In his mind it’s a normal thing to strip down naked and show off your body to people. It’s dangerous for him and the other children.

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

Your trauma is your own and it’s unfortunate but don’t apply it to everybody else. you think it’s creepy because you have zero experience raising children.

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Anonymous OP 16h

Again who are you to say I don’t have experience raising kids? I do think it’s creepy because I think you said smth super weird that most people don’t agree with

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Anonymous OP 16h

Your also being fucking rude for no reason to 2

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Anonymous #2 16h

In that case, sure but that’s anecdotal.

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Anonymous OP 16h

They have experience they just fucking told you

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Anonymous #4 16h

🤫 nobody’s talking to you.

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Anonymous OP 16h

OP how old are you? Just curious as this is a app filled with college aged people and you have two kids.

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Anonymous OP 16h

To remind you what you implied you started berating someone when they essentially said I think it’s weird to be undressed around your kids and you started saying well clearly y’all haven’t raised kids if you think it’s weird to be like that in front of children which yes is concerning

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

It’s obvious you don’t. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 16h

You are now. By responding you are now talking to them.

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Anonymous OP 16h

How please tell me how it’s obvious because you don’t fucking know me

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

Raising a sibling from the age of three isn’t the same thing as being a parent. I never said they didn’t have experience. I said they weren’t a parent.

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Anonymous #2 16h

Is every person on here in college?

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Anonymous OP 16h

Most yes that is what it’s created for

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Anonymous OP 16h

No. As I stated before I have graduated. I am asking your age.

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Anonymous OP 16h

I feel sorry for your kid's teachers with how much of a pain in the ass you're being

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

That’s not what you said at all. lol

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Anonymous OP 16h

No the argument you’ve been making is this one you specifically were claiming she has no experience because she didn’t personally give birth

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Anonymous OP 16h

and what did I say because what I said was that was fucking weird and I stand by that statement

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Anonymous #4 16h

If you’re going to feel sorry for your teacher, I feel sorry for the teachers of the other people commenting. Their reading comprehension and critical thinking skills are horrible.

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Anonymous OP 16h

Yet you still won’t answer a simple question of what is your age

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

Where did I say they didn’t have any experience? That was your assumption. I never said that.

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Anonymous OP 16h

Tf you mean by this

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

What do you think is “fucking weird”

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Anonymous #2 16h

Yeah Op what is your fucking age

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Anonymous #2 16h

Why do you think you’re entitled to an answer?

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Anonymous OP 16h

You saying I'm guessing you don't have kids yet. Trust me you can wear whatever you want at some stage they're gonna decide they want to be naked more than clothed lol and yes I think that’s weird especially since we’re talking about children

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Anonymous OP 16h

Because above a certain age it’s weird for someone of your age to be on here berating people

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Anonymous OP 16h

Because you went "probably still a teenager, right? think you know everything" and decided to judge someone based on an age estimation you made. I'm curious then what your age is because you're acting like a child.

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

Oh, let me guess you get to decide what that age is 😂

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Anonymous OP 16h

Umm yeah I think people who are above the age of 27 it’s weird because this is an app mainly made for college kids

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

No parent or anyone who’s ever raised children would make that comment. Which is why I said it’s obvious you’ve never raised kids. So why are you even part of this discussion?

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Anonymous OP 16h

You act as if you didn’t assume they were a teenager and then made fun of them for that despite them not being a teenager. You also still haven’t said your age.

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Anonymous OP 16h

This is Ask Women. Not “ask parents”.

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

This app hasn’t been about college kids in a very long time lol

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Anonymous OP 16h

That simply isn’t true.

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Anonymous OP 16h

Why do you think it asks for your college email the moment you log in?

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Anonymous number1lorax 16h

Your not proving your not a creep

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Anonymous OP 16h

I am a teacher and Ive seen a fair number of entitled parents. You're one of them. You asked a question. Got an answer you didn't like now you're arguing about it and for what? Just to be right? Sit down shut up and realize that every parent raises their kids differently and are honestly trying to figure it out.

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Anonymous #4 15h

🤫

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Anonymous OP 15h

This is rather immature behavior for a parent. I’m going to assume you had children rather young, let’s say you’re 19. Find something better to do with your time then ask a question and get mad at the answers.

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Anonymous #2 15h

Well, that’s awkward isn’t it? lol

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Anonymous OP 15h

“Not only”. That doesn’t mean mainly.

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Anonymous #2 15h

You’re showing your lack of maturity again. Just because you’re caught up in your emotions doesn’t mean I am. Lol

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Anonymous OP 15h

I said that it isn’t only college students but it is mainly. You misunderstood me as you seem to do continuously. I quite literally stated that I am no longer a college student and am still on here.

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Anonymous OP 15h

Why are you deflecting instead of actually responding? What do you hope to gain from this?

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Anonymous OP 15h

Seems like you are caught up in emotions considering how you’re acting. You could always just block me if you don’t like my response, that would be mature. Yet you don’t.

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Anonymous #2 15h

OP I wish your kids good luck truly. I find kids with difficult parents struggle in school, but hopefully they have an amazing teacher as most are. I will be blocking you now as you just want to argue and not have a discussion. For your sake I hope you get the help you need.

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Anonymous #4 15h

What am I deflecting?

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Anonymous OP 15h

Parent here, you’re wrong. You set the example and they follow it.

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Anonymous #5 14h

Your family absolutely did that. They just stopped before you remembered. Thus my question. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous #6 14h

Really? So you’re a carbon copy of your parents? Every behavior you have came from them. Interesting

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Anonymous OP 14h

No. They definitely did not. That’s not something we do.

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Anonymous #5 14h

Of course they did. Every single parent does. They just stop at different times. Your parents stopped before you remember, other parents stopped later. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 14h

Stop assuming things

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Anonymous number1lorax 14h

It’s not an assumption. If you were a parent you would know that 😉

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Anonymous OP 14h

Shut tf up

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Anonymous OP 14h

Your assuming their parents did smth that’s your assumption

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Anonymous OP 14h

I’ve asked my mom. She didn’t, and neither did her parents. How the fuck are you gonna tell me what MY family did?? Quit assuming shit. Your norm isn’t other people’s norm. I’m a young parent and I don’t even wear underwear around the house.

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Anonymous OP 14h

My mother and other female family members specifically have gowns for around the house. We don’t walk around in our underwear. Next time you try to tell someone about themselves, don’t.

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Anonymous OP 14h

Hasty generalization. Like I said said. Sit down shut up and listen

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Anonymous OP 14h

When you’re young enough, yes you follow the example set by your parents. You’re their entire world at young ages. You’re just not a very good parent in this aspect. I’m sure you’re fine in others, but definitely not here.

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Anonymous OP 14h

Why is being undressed around your kids the hill your dying on?

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Anonymous #5 13h

Does anybody your age group actually read or have any reading comprehension I didn’t say anything about walking around in your underwear, but I guarantee you every parent has been in their underwear in front of their child at some point.

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Anonymous number1lorax 13h

It’s not. If you could read, you would know that by now. Why are you even here? Nothing better to do than be a troll?

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Anonymous OP 13h

Yet again judging people for their age yet getting defensive when asked your age. It’s just weird.

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Anonymous OP 13h

Op? That’s what you originally posted

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Anonymous OP 13h

How are you gonna talk about reading comprehension when I already stated I asked my mother and she doesn’t. Shut your weird ass up. You probably have a fetish for this shit and got mad because you didn’t get the answers you wanted. Weird ass old ass fuck.

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