Anonymous #1 4w

Same or validation of some sort.

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Anonymous #3 4w

That’s what I do but cool 👍🏻

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Anonymous #4 4w

That’s real, I’ve always told myself my future husband is probably the guy that never leaves his house lol

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Anonymous OP 4w

So none of the men you meet are kind then

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Anonymous #3 4w

Why do you think I posted this to begin with???

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Anonymous OP 4w

Where are you meeting them if none of the men you meet are kind then you are choosing to associate yourself with people from the wrong places

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Anonymous #3 4w

I’m literally just existing in the world. I’m not dating or anything because I know my options are shit. Idk why you want to blame me for something I have no control over. I didn’t choose to be born into a world like this.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Well if you’re not willing to put the work in to meet men who are nice and kind then you can’t complain. There are plenty of kind men out there perhaps you aren’t an enticing option to them

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Anonymous #3 4w

See? You’re back to the blame game. Maybe, I do meet people just not romantically. And those people aren’t kind. Have you ever thought of that?

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Anonymous #3 4w

Like you claiming kind men don’t find me enticing just further proves that you also are not a kind individual.

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Anonymous OP 4w

It is your fault. What do you think it’s all men’s fault and society? The only thing in common is you 😂

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Anonymous #3 4w

You are the one coming in here attacking me for asking a simple question.

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Anonymous OP 4w

No one is attacking you. But the way you frame this issue like it’s not of your own doing is funny like it’s impossible to find a kind person

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Anonymous #3 4w

Well they’re never kind to me. Just cause it’s not your experience doesn’t give you the right to be an asshole

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Anonymous OP 4w

So all men are mean to you every day every time then

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Anonymous #3 4w

Yes or their kindness is a manipulative tactic.

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Anonymous OP 4w

It’s your choice continue going after the same men or change

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Anonymous #3 4w

And I don’t think you understand what I mean by kind. I don’t mean not being an absolute ass. I mean men with real empathy and ones that care about others feelings. Not just “he held the door open for me” kindness.

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Anonymous #3 4w

Again, I’m not going after any man. Idk what you want from me

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Anonymous OP 4w

Ok idk why you speak like that’s some rare trait

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Anonymous OP 4w

If you don’t go after any men then how are you sitting here complaining about not finding kind men

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Anonymous #3 4w

Cause for me it is. I’m not trying to rage bait either. I am being genuinely so so so serious.

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Anonymous #3 4w

I don’t understand how this is not clicking for you. I don’t see it in just everyday people that I have to be around for work, school or anywhere online. Why should I try when I can’t even see a glimpse of it on the surface of any man that I briefly encounter?

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Anonymous #1 4w

wdym?

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Anonymous #5 4w

no fr that or work. I like to go out on weekends and lots of people talk to me but I treat everyone like a friend until I get to know you

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Anonymous #3 4w

To be fair, she’s asking how to avoid this.

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Anonymous #7 4w

Ever heard of bread crumbing? Like being kind hearted just enough to keep you around for sex

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