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I get super scared when I like a guy. I start self doubting myself and questioning if he actually likes me. Does anyone have any advice ? I don’t wanna push him away and tryna act chill but it’s like scary as hell
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Anonymous 2w

do you think it stems from a specific time when that really happened or is it more a self-esteem issue?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Prolly self esteem bro

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

and is it only when you like someone, or when you think they like you too?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

When I think they like me too. In this instance. He likes me and said he does but I get in my head and don’t believe it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Why would he say it if he didn't mean it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

This is a really good point. Idk I just feel like he’s gonna leave Or act different

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I think its just cuz u get scared of losing him u start thinking of all the possible causes of what might make it happen. Dont question urself or make it a self esteem issue cuz it can rlly start impacting ur self esteem. U dont wanna lose confidence or act scared in a relationship. Thats actually how things can go bad

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