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How can I tell if a guy is just being friendly or is genuinely interested in me?
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Anonymous 1d

hi OP! if a guy is genuinely interested, he will often try to find 1-on-1 time together with you, buy you gifts (or offer to), or initiate physical touch between you. if he's just being pleasant and having polite conversation, that could definitely be general friendliness. if YOU are interested in HIM though, don't be afraid to invite him out somewhere if he's being friendly, because he'll appreciate it if he was being respectful and reserved, or else he'll just be flattered.

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Anonymous 23h

If you’re ugly then he’s just being friendly

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Anonymous 1d

Most men are not “just friendly” and most women underestimate how much a guy is into them. Men hardly ever acknowledge or look at a woman they find unattractive so therefore we can assume that if he’s giving u attention, making time for you, and is being present, he probably likes you to some degree

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

this is horrible advice.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

How so ? Also do u have any better advice or

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

you're basically ruling out the possibility of any guy ever acting out of kindness and not just a desire to get laid? i have many guy friends who act kindly because we're friends. that's not unusual at all. also why are you replying to threads on ask women when your account history clearly shows you're not a woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

“Ruling out the possibility of any guy” when I said “most guys” . You’re also reducing “showing interest and attraction” to “desire to get laid” lmao. I also said a lot of women underestimate how much a man tends to value them. These two things are tells that women should give a second thought to whether a man is just being nice or if they are interested. Usually, it’s the latter.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

Also I just don’t care . If I see a question I wanna answer I answer it. This post was up for an hour and no one said anything, even you are here to be annoying but u also haven’t given op an answer, u just wanna refute my point, with no actual evidence btw

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

maybe we shouldn't take your advice on being normal around women

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Reverting to ad hominem and attacking my character as if that has anything to do with my main point is hilarious lol

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

I'm attacking your ability to give valuable advice because you're clearly a fucking weirdo

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Don’t let the messenger distract you from the message 🤷🏻

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