Anonymous #3 15w

I also think we have some toxic strands in friendship. Some Women have been socialized to be nice at all costs. Meaning you run into some confusing friendships where girls will be very two faced about you. Or tear you down whenever you rise and make you feel crazy for seeing it

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Anonymous #3 15w

I also think some of our online content is concerningly close to red pill for girls (but not nearly as dangerous) the ones that are like encouraging girls to stay at home. The “I’m just a girl” stuff etc. I’m all for princess treatment sometimes, I’m all for being silly. But some of it is just completely infantilizing. And a lot of it does not promote equality in partnerships. I actually have nothing against traditional relationships. But this isn’t even that

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Anonymous #3 15w

And finally while I don’t look down on OF models in general I don’t think OF is great I do have an issue with some of them who I think shamelessly try to lure people in both men and women (into becoming creators) and just post fucking everywhere with no sense that kids and teens can access that stuff easily when it’s blatant on instagram and stuff. Or the girls who fake like disability and stuff to make content

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Anonymous #3 15w

Obviously there is NOTHING that applies generally to all girls. But these are the trends I think about the most (also i didn’t respond to the post initially bc i read it as “what can women do better than men” not what can women do better as people

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