I’ve been celibate for 2.5 years and I’ve recently began to struggle with it. I feel like I’m wasting my youth, but at the same time I know I wouldn’t enjoy hookups :/
you aren't wasting your youth! def dont compare your experiences to others <3
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Anonymous13w
if you know you wouldn't enjoy it, then you're just feeling a general FOMO on the social aspect, not the sex. that's completely reasonable, but don't get them mixed up in your head (a lot of people do).
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Anonymous13w
Abstinent*
But having difficulty with lust is a very real thing! Many people feel the same way but whenever you finally do reach those goals you became abstinent to achieve you’re going to be so proud of yourself!
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Anonymous13w
What’s your motivation for being celibate? I feel like any advice would depend on the reasoning there
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Anonymous13w
wasting your youth would be handing over your body to people who don’t value it! I’ve never met any one who felt whole after being promiscuous. find your person
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Anonymous13w
If you genuinely want to have sex with someone then you could do a fwb, you would get more time to learn about each other and your likes
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Anonymous#313w
The few times I had sex it wasn’t good and I was worried about STDs so I just decided not to engage in any sexual activity until I find a guy I see myself with long term
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Anonymous#413w
I think you’re right. It seems fun when I hear people’s stories and I think I feel lame because I have no stories hahaha
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Anonymous#213w
Yeah I’ve been struggling with it 😅 but I am proud that I’ve made it this far! Thank you!