I find it cringey. The boat rides thing is extra shallow. For the provider thing, she could be a straight up gold digger, but she could also be trying to convey “he needs to have a job and be willing to invest in a relationship” while not being very emotionally intelligent.

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I see so many guys that make their whole thing about how they have a boat (that’s their parents boat half the time) and I’ve always thought it was dumb, i do not care

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I don’t agree with it, because I don’t agree with that mentality, but I think it’s good they are saying what they are looking for.

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Idk I think it’s probably mostly supposed to be a joke but yeah I think it’s lowkey cringe

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personally when i say i want a provider i want someone who provides not only monetarily yk. like providing support whether it is financially or thru acts of service i want someone who ik will be there for me no matter what. but i dont expect them to pay for everything i just want a man who has the mindset of willing to do anything and everything for me

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a man should be a provider for a woman, what’s the issue w that? men are providers, if you can’t provide for your gf/wife, don’t date them. i think the boat shit is like a joke but being a provider is what every man should aspire to be for their gf/wife/family

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Dating apps made women so fucking shallow. They think they have unlimited options

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