
Most men and women won't turn their nose up at someone who's a little overweight. You will have to be wary of feeders who fetishise and want to incapacitate you, but there are plenty of people who will love you as you are. Regardless of body fat %, you should always strive to be healthy, and strive to have a partner who wants to keep you healthy (unhealthy ≠ overweight). Don't be with someone who encourages you to eat slop and let your body decay.