Understand that there is no "baseline" of what women want in a guy. Everyone is different and wants something different in a partner. You are not unlovable because you get turned down. Don’t pretend to be someone else in a relationship because you will just wear yourself out and become cynical. Be the best person you can be for you and not for others

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Dont interact with incels or incel media. This means taking a critical persoective to a lot of manes improvement type content. Make positive connections with feminist men and women, have a good support system. Love yourself

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Don’t interact with incel creators. Spend less time online and more time looking at what the real world looks like. What relationships look like. Make new friends outside of online who have different opinions and experiences than you do. Listen to the women in your life about the issues they face. Also dating is not the end all be all of everything. Especially right now.

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Make female friends and not only with girls you find attractive. remember that the point of making friends is just that, to make friends. not to open doors for possible relationships. and also what 2 said, remember that women are all very different, we have different preferences in what we want in life and what we find attractive. Don’t try to change yourself or lie about who you are because you’ll only be scaring away the women who will actually be attracted to you

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Get off the internet and go outside. Go find something meaningful to do. Get a job, start volunteering, join an organization, stuff like that

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