Ok so there’s a lot abt financially supporting ourselves, I’m a junior in college and I have a job and he has his own house with a well paying job
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Anonymous10w
It depends tbh but it’s a bit eyebrow raising (as someone who got engaged at 22). You wanna make sure you’re in a safe space financially and education wise. It’s important to make sure that you can survive if something happens before being reliant on anyone imo
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Anonymous10w
for me, yes
but you know yourself and your relationship– just make sure you really think about it lol
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Anonymous10w
Tbh yes. Your brain isn’t developed till 25 and they say it takes 5 years to know a person. Plus you gotta think about stability and financial security. But it always just depends on the people involved
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Anonymous10w
Yes, especially if you guys can’t financially support yourselves. And I just think it’s wayyyy to young 😭
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Anonymous10w
Not at all, I’m also 20, been with my bf for 4.5 years and want to get engaged this year
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Anonymous10w
personally, yes.
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Anonymous10w
imo yes
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Anonymous10w
Hummm yeah… what are you going to drink at your engagement party? Boxed apple juice? 😂🤪
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Anonymous#810w
Don’t have to be rude
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AnonymousOP10w
What’s the age difference between you guys out of curiosity
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Anonymous#510w
yes extremely important question lol
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Anonymous#110w
2 years
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AnonymousOP10w
phew
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Anonymous#810w
Honestly thinking about being engaged for 2 more years though so we’re both fully out of college and finically stable. Rather be on a fiancé status then just girlfriend
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Anonymous#210w
That’s exactly what I was thinking
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Anonymous#210w
That makes a lot of sense. No point in getting married and living with parents.
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Anonymous#810w
That’s really nice tbh because you can take your time and relax and finish school