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I like “don’t do wife duties for a guy who doesn’t act like a husband” more than “don’t do wife duties as a gf” cause how y’all are while dating is what decides if you’ll wanna marry. It focuses more on reciprocity than titles which is more important.
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I get not wanting to be taken advantage of. That’s why checking for reciprocity, setting timelines, and seeing if he’s acting like a husband is important. Cause if a dude was intentionally neglecting parts of our relationship because he’s not my husband why would I think he’d magically do it when we marry? I’d need to see he’s able and interested in doing those things beforehand to even decide if I wanna marry him. I’m assuming the reverse is true too.

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