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I did a lot of wrong things to girls when I was under 18, I’m 23 now I’m scared to talk to girls cause I’ve all the wrong I’ve done. How can I move forward
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Anonymous 1d

Be a good person in the dating scene going forward

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Anonymous 1d

Therapy

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Anonymous 1d

Therapy, journaling, maybe a counselor or meditation. Just a way to reflect without beating yourself up over it and acknowledging that what you did was wrong but you’re working on being better

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah therapy like #2 said. You need to learn to forgive yourself. We’ve all made fuckups in the past, we can’t dwell on them too much especially if we’re trying to grow. It just sets us back. I wouldn’t reach out to the girls but maybe writing apologies to them will help even if they’re not gonna see it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

so I have tried, and I’ve just sabotaged my relationship by trying to focus on what’s good

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

You think anyone’s got money to afford therapy?

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