Anonymous #3 10w

Willing to commit and I like a short king 🫣😂

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I’m in a relationship

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Anonymous #3 10w

I’m dating someone under 6 ft. Skill issue?

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Anonymous #2 10w

“Someone under 6ft”. Proceeds to say he’s 5’9 😒😒

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Anonymous #3 10w

5’9 is under 6 foot what?

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Anonymous #3 10w

Actually I’m just short and like people to be near my eye level. I am not sharing my partner’s exact height because that’s his personal info, but I really wouldn’t care if he was shorter. Would care if he was ridiculously tall though. If I can’t reach the top of his head, he’s too tall 😂 My bf actually grew from under six ft to still under six ft during our relationship and at this point, I would not end the relationship over height even if he grew to 8 ft.

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Anonymous #3 10w

But if you want to blame nonexistent standards for your lack of a partner despite everything that real people tell you about their actual relationships and preferences… maybe that attitude is the reason you’re single.

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Anonymous #2 10w

same i’m waiting for marriage and it instantly eliminates so many would-be problem men from my life 💖

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 10w

Or you’re gonna end up with the most problematic type of man

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Because I have standards?

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Anonymous #8 10w

my bf is the most amazing, intelligent, hot, and sweet man i have ever met and spoils me to no end so nah

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Anonymous #8 10w

I mean it’s POSSIBLE, but if you have standards and a plan to leave when certain lines are crossed, he’d have to be a very patient psychopath to get you and those are rare.

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Anonymous #10 10w

I gave a presentation on the double slit experiment, but if you think quantum mechanics is boring, then you’re the boring one buddy

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Anonymous #5 10w

Reasonable thing to say

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Anonymous #2 10w

Performative female. I know the games you play

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Anonymous #2 10w

In practice it would go more like: love island, my friend …, or let’s go for a walk because I don’t have a single hobby except talking on the phone

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Anonymous #10 10w

Ooooo you DID NOT say quantum mechanics is boring! Even misogynists can’t deny the awesomeness of science. Anyway, you’re probably a total waste of my time so bye. Unless you have one interesting thing to tell me that I didn’t already know, I don’t need to bother with you.

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Anonymous #10 10w

Note to any readers who are confused as to why some women prefer the term “woman” to “female”. It’s because of guys like this, who use “female” in this context. Personally idc and use them interchangeably, but this is a perfect example for any of you who are confused about it.

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Anonymous #2 10w

Performative male - performative female. It’s pretty simple. Not even sure what the hell your writing about it’s giving me crazy vibes already

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Anonymous #10 10w

among many other things ive been asked to be a keynote speaker at an international tech conference but ok

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Anonymous #2 10w

I've always been curious why women lie like this even when there are no consequences? Why not be honest about general trends of sexual preferences?

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Anonymous #2 10w

As someone who has taken quantum mechanics, fuck quantum mechanics. But yeah… it’s decidedly not boring, just painful

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Anonymous #10 10w

Oh wow, this is turning into a great learning experience! How to recognize toxic behaviors. Exhibit 10. Part A. Confused as to why their behavior is put on display as an explanation to others. To understand why, they would have to self-reflect. Hence, they do not understand. Part B. Referring to the person calling them out as “crazy”. In interpersonal relationships, this id called gaslighting. Very toxic. Gas mask recommended.

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Anonymous #12 10w

Have you… taken a statistics class?

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Anonymous #2 10w

Two in order to finish my degree. Why?

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Anonymous #12 10w

Classes were just university stats 1 & 2. Both calc based but second included more linear and proofs and stuff

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Anonymous #12 10w

Those of us who have taken statistics understand that trends based on averages do not contain the whole picture. When you have a data set, such as a list of height preferences, the highest and lowest preferences will obviously be different. People whose height preferences are below average are not lying, they are simply not average.

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Anonymous #12 10w

Oh good, then you do know how statistics work. Can you, maybe, apply them?

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Anonymous #14 10w

Ooooo I’m taking it now. I heard it’s hard, but… I just can’t go my whole life without ever taking it. I’ve been wanting to know what we’re made of since like 8th grade, and now I finally can! And make study groups about it, and ask the professor all sorts of questions.

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 10w

Yooooooo that’s sick! Good for you!

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Anonymous #4 10w

One time i was flyering for a club and someone came over and shook my hand, then flirtatiously pulled me in his direction. I was in a relationship and not interested, but I approve of this idea. Hope he found someone

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Anonymous #18 10w

Thats not true smh

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Anonymous #3 10w

Im 5’9 and some women truly dont care. I think they just like to say that to be problematic idk

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Anonymous #20 10w

Pfffffss ok buddy

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Anonymous #20 10w

Or, you know, different ones have different preferences

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Anonymous #2 10w

The lie was the statement "blame nonexistent standards" There are general trends and standards.

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Anonymous #3 10w

Right here bro

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Anonymous #15 10w

#1. Honesty, consistency, respect, mutual sexual attraction, shared values, shared and compatible definitions of fun #2. Security emotionally and practically through height, strength, confidence, money, and social status #3 unnamable extra personal factors unique to each woman

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Anonymous #12 10w

The more you have the better, the less you have the more they often perceive you have to "make up" for a lack

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Anonymous #12 10w

Oh, maybe I wasn’t clear enough what I meant. I was referring to the assumption he made about my personal standards (he assumed that I was dating close to 6 feet after I told him I was dating under 6 feet), not the general preference that many women have.

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Anonymous #12 10w

Security through height and strength… just say you set dating apps to 6ft+ 🙄🙄🙄🙄

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Anonymous #4 10w

I promise you man, just ask us. Some ladies are mean but us wifeys are out there

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Anonymous #4 10w

They say that dating for straight men is like a desert and dating for straight women is like a swamp, different situations but similarly difficult to find a good relationship

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Anonymous #3 10w

These are the things that most women want including ones who don’t have an arbitrary 6ft limit, it’s a big part of why a lot of women tend to be more attracted to taller guys. Different ones of these are more or less important to different women, so for example some women who prefer guys less tall might value more the security of feeling easier to connect when there’s less of that physical separation

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Anonymous #16 10w

Part of it is that the people who are more picky or obnoxious or whatever are going to have a harder time getting a relationship and thus will stay on the app longer

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Anonymous #12 10w

There are existing standards that many women have, there are not existing universal standards of what women want Also for a lot of women, particularly shorter women, who prefer a tall guy 5’9 and 5’10 would still be considered tall, that’s not a shorter guy, the 6’ thing is mostly on dating apps where they’re seeing the number and not the person

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Anonymous #10 10w

Going on walks and watching shows are hobbies…

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Anonymous #15 10w

For me? Commitment, mutual respect, consistency, sexual attraction, humor, emotional stability, maturity, confidence and honestly the #1 most IMPORTANT factor to me is communication!!!!!! Can’t communicate with me? None of the rest will make up for that. And I’m 5’7” and have dated my height, taller AND slightly shorter.

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Anonymous #3 10w

Yep. I like tall strong men. Lots of men like shorter more delicate women. Plenty of women like short delicate men, and plenty of men like tall strong women. I was just trying to help answer #15: "What do women want in a man"

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