Anonymous #6 2d

funny you think it’s just our dating lives that lead us to believe many men are horrible. it’s also our fathers our brothers our classmates our coworkers our bosses our neighbors and our friends and also the negative experiences with males nearly every one of the women in our lives have had but sure!

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Anonymous #7 2d

^ woman learns six degrees of separation from first principles

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Anonymous #7 2d

What you are saying isn't rational to base your dating behavior off of. Assume you have 10 friends, each with 10 friends. Then you have 100 in your second degree network. With a 1% rate of sex offenses, P(none guilty) = 0.99^100 = 0.366. So P(at least one guilty) = 1 − P(none guilty) = 63%. Even if 1% of the population committed sex crimes, you're virtually guaranteed to "know someone who knows someone" that has done it. So it's really not insightful or smart to think the way you do about this.

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Anonymous #6 2d

Women are telling you their experiences with abuse and your response is let me figure out how to tell her she’s fucking stupid and dumb and actually not all men r all that bad! Instead of acknowledging that these man - many many men - have hurt women. But sure it’s the women’s fault for being stupid, never the man’s fault for being abusive.

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Anonymous #3 2d

“Many many men” is that a 50 cent reference?

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Anonymous #3 2d

Because your fear of men isn't rooted in anything fucking rational. I just showed you a mathematical proof that saying you know someone who knows someone who has committed a sex crime isn't insightful and can be achieved without a statistically significant percentage of the population having offended. Unless you're hanging out with sex offenders, or completely idiotic about street smarts, you have nothing to worry about.

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Anonymous #6 2d

You’re a genuinely disgusting person I cannot emphasize that enough.

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Anonymous #6 2d

You call women being irrational for experiencing fucking abuse and being scared as a result??? You are genuinely as bad as the abusers themselves and I cannot emphasize it enough you are disgusting as a human being.

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Anonymous #6 2d

Shove your statistics down your dick, you’ll never empathize with women’s experiences because you don’t view us as people.

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Anonymous #6 2d

Women get harassed and assaulted by their friends and family members, people we think we can trust who turn out to be monsters. You can’t blame women for being victims, blame the men doing this to us instead. You’re heartless

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Anonymous #1 2d

You know, I can blame the men, but I can still call out this insanity where women are afraid of all men because a tiny percentage of them do despicable things. We're not talking about the men right now. We're talking about stupid it is to assume and act as if men are guilty or prone to committing sex crimes by default just because you know someone who knows a man who has.

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Anonymous #6 2d

Buddy this might be a right message wrong messenger deal..😭

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Anonymous #6 2d

When a minority of men are violent towards women, and the rest of them either ignore it or respond to women with just “not all of us do that”, it makes sense why women are going to be distrustful of all men

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Anonymous #1 2d

How often do you listen to female friends or women in general vent about these negative experiences without trying to blame her for what happened? How often do you argue against men irl and online who say misogynistic things about women? What actions are you taking to not just avoid hurting women, but to actually help them?

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Anonymous #1 2d

I can't speak for the men you know in your life, but they sound like some real pieces of shit. I hope you can find better male friends who believe survivors' experiences.

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Anonymous #1 2d

Question 1 - always. I used to blame women for men's transgressions when I was in middle school. I'm an adult now. Question 2 - I don't argue with men about misogyny online because I don't come across it. I don't partake in manosphere forums or befriend anyone into that. Question 3 - I listen, but just because someone's a woman does not entitle them to using faulty reasoning to create a world where innocent men are assumed sex criminals by default until proven innocent.

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Anonymous #6 2d

It may be a small percentage of men who do the actual crimes. But it’s a large percentage who encourage it, laugh at it, look the other way when it happens . You should know you’re in that fucking percentage

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Anonymous #4 2d

Yea but your not

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Anonymous #9 2d

Does telling yourself that make you feel better about something?

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