Anonymous #2 14h

If someone believes penis size matters, then that same person’s body count matters too.

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Anonymous OP 14h

what’s the correlation tho?

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Anonymous OP 14h

is it just a retaliatory thing?

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Anonymous #2 14h

Yes…it’s applying the same logic both ways. If one thing about a partner’s body or experience is treated as important, then another comparable thing about that partner should be treated as important too.

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Anonymous OP 14h

i don't see how they can be directly comparable tho. when people talk about dick size mattering they're talking about a physical attribute that contributes to sexual feeling. too small and it doesn’t feel like anything, too big and it can be extremely painful or in some cases not fit. someone's body count doesn't affect sexual pleasure.

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Anonymous #2 14h

If penis size matters because it affects pleasure or the relationship, body count should matter too, since it’s argued to affect comparison, bonding, and STI risk. Both are claims about how a partner’s body or experience affects sex or the relationship.

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Anonymous OP 14h

again i don’t really think the two are comparable and it’s not really realistic to start caring about body count just bc someone cares about dick size. kinda weird to make it like a retaliation thing when there different but ok that’s ur opinion i guess

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Anonymous #2 14h

Lesbians have sex without penises… it’s a very comparable thing

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Anonymous OP 14h

im very aware, i’ve had plenty of lesbian sex. im not even saying dick size matters to me personally. im just saying its reasonable for it to matter especially when it could make sex unenjoyable/ painful

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Anonymous #2 14h

If you can have sex without penises, it does not matter and it doesn’t matter just as much as body count does not matter

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Anonymous OP 14h

bringing up lesbians is irrelevant. what makes a straight woman satisfied in bed could be different. if she can’t enjoy having sex with a partner, that could pose an issue in the relationships. sexual satisfaction is a very strong predictor of overall relationship satisfaction

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Anonymous #2 14h

You don’t have to use your penis to have sex in heterosexual sex

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Anonymous OP 14h

again.. im aware of how sex works. some women could not be satisfied with just oral/ manual.

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Anonymous #2 14h

Now I know you know that’s not true

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Anonymous OP 14h

? it is true. there are women that don’t enjoy oral sex and want penetration to be satisfying

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Anonymous #2 14h

Fingers

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Anonymous OP 14h

not the same.

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Anonymous #2 14h

Are you being dead ass right now?

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Anonymous OP 14h

unless you know what it’s like to take dick and be fingered i don’t really think you have a right to tell women what they should be satisfied with.

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Anonymous #2 14h

I don’t even think you see the double standard that you’re posing here

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Anonymous #3 14h

They both don’t matter

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Anonymous OP 14h

enlighten me then

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Anonymous #2 14h

You’re defending the right to judge men on something they have no control over, even though they can still have fully functional sex without it. Instead, you could just acknowledge that judging men for something uncontrollable and judging women for seeking pleasure are equally wrong.

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Anonymous OP 14h

it’s not judging them tho, it’s just recognizing that there is an incompatibility. an aspect that would hinder part of the relationship. everyone should feel free to date who they see is most compatible with them.

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Anonymous #2 14h

Are you bi?

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Anonymous OP 14h

yea why

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Anonymous #2 14h

If someone doesn’t date you ,girl or boy, Because you are by what does that make that Person?

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Anonymous OP 14h

entitled to their preferences.

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Anonymous #2 14h

So do you understand the reason why someone wouldn’t want to date a bi woman?

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Anonymous OP 13h

Well to some people they do

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Anonymous #1 13h

Literally

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Anonymous OP 13h

yeah sure. people are entitled to their opinions and dating preferences. it’s okay to not want to date everyone.

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Anonymous #2 13h

I like this argument, keep going, this is intriguing

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Anonymous #2 13h

Tell me the reason that you think or at least one of the reasons?

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Anonymous OP 13h

You can’t force people to date or fuck you if they’re not interested. Everyone’s entitled to reject people for whatever reason, as long as they’re not mean about it I don’t see what the issue is.

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Anonymous #5 13h

You added nothing

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Anonymous OP 13h

Sure, if you don’t know how to read

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Anonymous OP 13h

if someone had the fear that they couldn’t be enough for a bisexual person, then they should not date a bisexual person, as that fear could negatively affect them in the relationships

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Anonymous #2 13h

Is that fear valid?

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Anonymous OP 13h

could be. depends on the person.

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Anonymous #2 13h

So theres a version of the fear that is valid?

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Anonymous OP 13h

prolly. i don’t know every human being in the world. the point isn’t really if that fear is valid or not tho. the point is, if they have any preconceived notions or beliefs about bisexuals that would negatively affect their relationship with one then they should not date a bisexual. again my point is that people are entitled to seek out the person they are most compatible with, without shame.

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Anonymous #2 13h

Are there any preconceived notions or beliefs about bisexuals that are valid that contribute to the fear?

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