Anonymous #1 2d

That’s terrible obv. How do u know he was an incel?

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Anonymous recoveringincel 2d

He stated it himself. Was very proud of that fact while he grabbed me

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Anonymous #1 2d

I’m glad u were able to fight him off. I kind of want to know more abt him, not in like a admiring way, but like how did he get to that point

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Anonymous recoveringincel 2d

*an

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Anonymous recoveringincel 2d

I didn’t even know him

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Anonymous #1 2d

Oh rlly, he was a stranger? That’s freaky. Glad ur ok.

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Anonymous recoveringincel 2d

I was at a birthday party for a friend that I thought was going to be 10 people and I knew half. Instead it was 40+ and I knew 5. It was just a random guy I never met who cornered me in the yard next to a tree. He was very touchy and I made it clear I wasn’t interested but he continued grabbing me. He wouldn’t stop and just kept saying how women didn’t like incels like him so he “had to do this”. I pulled a tree branch down and just started hitting him.Eventually he called me a bitch and ran off

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Anonymous #1 2d

That’s disgusting. Nothing justifies that. I don’t associate myself with him

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Anonymous #1 2d

Was he ugly?

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Anonymous recoveringincel 2d

If I had to guess, the amount of rapists who are incels is small

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Anonymous recoveringincel 2d

It was pitch black outside so I never saw his face. I know it wasn’t one of the 5 people I knew. Also sucks to see you putting down my literal very near assault story to say that it doesn’t happen often

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Anonymous #1 2d

No no. I know SA happens a lot. I think what happened to u is terrible. Idk if it’s reflective of all incels tho

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Anonymous recoveringincel 2d

So you don’t think I should be wary around incels then?

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Anonymous #1 2d

Well, given ur experience, I would be wary

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Anonymous #1 2d

But not rlly any more so than around men as a whole

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Anonymous recoveringincel 2d

Turns out when someone tells you something as they’re assaulting you it sticks with you. Didn’t help that I was a child at the time. It took years of therapy for me to tell anyone let alone come to terms with what happened. I don’t blame all men but I am scared of people who are apparently “involuntary celibate” so they force themselves on women to have sex. Anyone who self declares themself an incel will be seen as a threat to me because they all seem to resent women so much

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Anonymous #1 2d

I’m…sorry. Ur right.

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Anonymous #1 2d

I rlly shouldn’t associate with that label. Cuz I think I’m better. No, I know I’m better

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Anonymous #1 2d

It sickens me that you see me as someone like him

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Anonymous recoveringincel 2d

Didn’t you make a post like 6 hours ago about how you hate women? If incels blame women for not having sex they feel is “owed” to them sometimes they will take it forcefully and still blame the woman. That guy called me a bitch for hitting him because he was trying to undo my pants. He continued to blame me and I felt like I couldn’t tell anyone because I figured it wasn’t “actual assault” and was overreacting. My therapist had to tell me straight up I wasn’t being dramatic and it was crazy

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Anonymous #1 2d

I don’t think it is “owed” to me. I just wish it was easier to get, along with a loving partnership. To think what he did is okay is depraved.

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Anonymous #1 2d

I still have a heart

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Anonymous recoveringincel 2d

If you want love why hate the people who could love you? Hating women isn’t helping you find love

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Anonymous #1 2d

Idk anymore. Idk who or what I am 🤦‍♂️

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Anonymous #1 2d

I wish I could hit that guy with a stick

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Anonymous recoveringincel 2d

Ik that doesn’t make me worthy of a relationship

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Anonymous recoveringincel 2d

Well thankfully he has been hit with a stick by me at least. I hope you get better though. Would hate for you to end up like that

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Anonymous #1 2d

I’m sad that anyone ends up like that. Or maybe he was always like that. All I know for sure is I want to be better. Ur story made me feel…Idk

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Anonymous #1 2d

I’m sorry

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Anonymous #2 2d

That’s sad that they do that

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