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Tips on making the first move without making her uncomfortable/pressured. (Signs, cues, etc…)
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Anonymous 4w

Make physical contact in a non sexual area (shoulder, leg, etc). This is called breaking the touch barrier. If she responds positively, good sign, if not prob no go

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Anonymous 4w

offer to buy her coffee/ a drink, something small. make NON sexual contact, dap her up when you part or pat her shoulder/arm area. offer to do things FOR her (throw away her trash, hold her items for her)

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Anonymous 3w

From my experience, I like hugs and straightforward communication. I (F) was always the first one to put feelings into words once I processed them. Both times, started with a lot of talking about random things, values, dreams, whatnot. At some point there was hugging. And then in the evening I texted “I am attracted to you”. And then we started dating

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Touching someone at all even if it is non sexual will still make them uncomfortable if they don’t like you 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I’m not sure how to tell who does and does not want to be hugged, so I sometimes just ask permission to hug people

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