The on and off relationship and him being narcissistic and unstable would have been my sign that things were bad but hindsight is 20/20. The best thing you can do now is make sure he is still legally helping with the baby he helped create and take care of yourself

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heyy girl i dont rly have advice but if it’s encouraging for you at all my mom was a single mom for most of my childhood (until she met my stepdad who is awesome) and she’s also my best friend in the whole world and the most amazing person ik. you got this!! watch some gilmore girls if you’re feeling down lol

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ur gonna be okay, u will find someone way better now that he’s out of the way, and thank goodness u found out now instead of wasting more years of ur life w him. kinda like thewizardliz, also make sure he pays child support

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Pt.2- I have a lot to be thankful, grateful, and happy over. But this time he said he refused and denies any more socialization with me-- not sure why this phrase is stinging so much this time around-- maybe be because there's a baby in me this time.

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Pt.3- I asked God to bless me with a baby; I have a dermoid cyst so I thought I couldn't get pregnant, and we've slipped up a few times throughout the years to no pregnancies.. so ultimately I feel blessed-- like God really did answer my prayers

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Pt.4- but I feel like I let myself and my son down already -- I never wanted to put myself in a position to be a single mother-- I guess I'm just disappointed in myself. But I'm trying to prepare myself for him to never be in our lives again. Not even at the birth. Just really trying to keep it together

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Pt.5 - I keep thinking he said those things because he finally got me-- nothing to keep chasing now that I'm knocked up. Like he's truly done this time. But all things considered this really may be the best for me and my son. He's unstable, manipulative, narcissistic-- but always said he wanted nothing else in the world to be a dad. I guess I'm just confused on how he could walk away on us. I won't say I was the easiest to be with-- but neither was he

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Pt.5 - just venting. There's many more layers that had led to this moment, so I guess I'm just looking forward to the phase where I don't think about him every morning when I wake up; if he'll come back. If he thinks about what he's given up. I suppose the lost control and the unknowing is what's tearing at me-- and he's last words-- 'I refuse and deny any more socialization with you' -- at such a unique time. How to let go? 😮‍💨

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get an abortion PLEASE

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oh nevermind you already had the baby. good luck

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