Ask Women on Yik Yak | update: he didn’t pay for my food, we had sex ( didn’t even want to yes i consent ) he asked to hangout instead of asking me on a 3rd date 😂😆😎

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Ask Women 8w

update: he didn’t pay for my food, we had sex ( didn’t even want to yes i consent ) he asked to hangout instead of asking me on a 3rd date 😂😆😎

Ask Women 9w

i went on a 1st date, he showered me with compliments payed for food, we even kissed at the end, but barley texted.. but he wants to go on another one

#poll

girl your fine relax your shoulders

this is performative .. 🎭

sensing something red 🚩

93 votes

Anonymous 8w

oh my god im so sorry. i would feel so used after this bullshit you deserve so much better and you deserved to be taken seriously when you said you didn’t want to do anything. fuck him and i hope you find someone so much better

Anonymous 8w

Tbh when I hear that as a man I think you just need to move on. I think he's trying to let you down easy but he's clearly not into you. It's no big deal everyone isn't for everyone. In the meantime you should work on your head game

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Anonymous

#1 8w

rage bait 😍😍

Anonymous

OP 8w

Ok but I meant everything seriously but the last sentence. Maybe the last sentence too if you have a sense of humor (and want to be fallen in love with)

Anonymous

#1 8w

that doesn’t make any sense why would you hang out with me for hours just to “let me down easy” instead of just saying “hey this isn’t gonna work out” like why would you do all this just to lie i don’t understand and i think im gonna be sick bc i said i don’t wanna have sex because i know how im gonna get afterwards and he still went and asked even after i was open about where i stand

Anonymous

OP 8w

I think he wasn't sure about you. But with guys they're always down to fuck, so even if he wasn't "sure" about you, he probably felt alright enough about you to have sex with you but not date you. That might make you mad, but that's just how most dudes are

Anonymous 8w

This is why *you don't let men hit. You're just an idiot. There are plenty of women out there who know exactly how it goes and have casual sex on their own terms

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Anonymous 8w

Yeah that bad date is everyone's fault but her own. Great way to live life good luck hun

-1

Anonymous 8w

that doesn’t make any sense, and it’s not like i just hooked up with him like i even moved his hand away and said im not ready but it still kinda happened anyway, yes i was looking for love but he made it seem like he was too instead of saying “hey i like you but im just here for sex” then i would be able to make that decision for myself instead of getting emotionally manipulated into thinking something else and i genuinely wasn’t trying to do anything with him but it kinda just happened

Anonymous

#1 8w

i’m understanding but your making it seem like i knew it was casual and im going crazy afterwards, if you what casual you don’t label a fucking hang out as a date and emphasize it as a date ? “don’t let men hit” i don’t care if it’s casual but don’t label it something else to get sex out of me just say you want to hang out and have sex it’s simple he had 2 times to tell me that instead of lying to my face

Anonymous 8w

that’s why i feel so sick, there was no reason to make it seem like you wanted to be with me to have sex with me, he could have hung out with me regularly instead of putting in this face that’s my biggest issue !! we could have had sex but allow me to make that choice myself