
Itās nothing to do with spreading if you read, itās the pushing the air in our out. Have you ever seen a tampon in real life? Do you think thatās really stretching us so much it should think itās accomplished something? If you want to feel accomplished during sex make her cum.
Sorry how have I not proved you wrong? Your original statement implied the cause of the queef if the stretching, when itās actually pushing air in an out of the vagina. Theoretically you could have something small enough to push air in without stretching it and still receive a queef when itās removed. To provide an Analogy: See that animal right there? Itās a zebra, you can tell because it has ears. While true Zebraās have ears usually, the most accurate identifying factor would be its pattern!