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Is it crazy that my man boohoos over minor tough conversations about giving me (GF) respect? He claims he’s trying but once I respectfully call him out for it and tell him it’s not an attack on his character he loses his shit starts crying and goes silent
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Anonymous 5w

Sounds like manipulation to me or lack of accountability once he’s called out

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Anonymous 5w

Nahhh that’s crazy.

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Anonymous 5w

Yeah that sounds crazy. What are you asking from him?

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Anonymous 5w

either intentional and manipulative or unintentional and he's that emotionally immature. really bad either way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

^of him to do

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 5w

To just give me respect as his girlfriend and not treat like one of his friends and to support me and not dismiss my feelings.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

and he took it as a “Do I really not support and respect you? why are you still with me if I don’t respect you?” and then starts crying meanwhile i’m over here 😐

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Ew girl dump his ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I set clear, respectful expectations that I just want to be treated like a girlfriend with respect and support and I don’t get his support. He gets “stressed out” from small rants that barely affect me and from my own anxiety and stress that mind you, HE SAID wanted to always be the person there for me and comfort me but gets stressed out from my stress which isn’t anything bad and not very often. And HE is the one crying because I said that I don’t feel the basic level of support that I want.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

how long have you been together?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

a year plus 3 months

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

it sounds like you should end it before you get even more connected to this guy who can't handle basic conversations about respect and expectations

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Honestly it sounds like you aren’t being treated well, not even as a girlfriend but this behavior isn’t even acceptable from a friendship point of view. You’ve done everything you can here from the sounds of it. I normally hesitate in suggesting breaking up, but this relationship is not good.

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