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Ask Women 8w
I want to fall in love, not just have sex but have a deep loving relationship:( but every date i go on i feel I fuck up somehow I just idk what I’m doing wrong
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Anonymous 8w

Hi OP, I am the same way. I am a guy and virgin by choice. I seek a deep bond with someone but often pleasure comes first for many people. When the fun ends, they vanish.

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Anonymous 8w

Can you explain what happens on those dates?

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 8w

Usually coffee or dinner and we just talk usally but I don’t ask for anything or be disrespectful or anything like that:( or at least I don’t think

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

they prolly just didn’t feel a spark, it’s common

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Do you ask them questions?

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 8w

Usually yeah just like get to know you stuff

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