A guy in my old class said that he liked older women because they were often more vulnerable, desperate for love, and had money to spend on him. That stuff is gross to me

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Depends heavily on the reason.

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So long as it’s more about her as a person and not about a circumstance of her age, or as a fetish, than it’s not that problematic i think. (The age gap itself can be problematic though, like if she’s much older than him and likes having that power dynamic, it’s concerning)

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