Ask Women on Yik Yak | What to do when your boyfriend of 3 months got a girls number to be friends and right before they were gonna go get food and chill at the beach he finally told her he has a gf but still wants to get to know her but then she declined?

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Ask Women 1w

What to do when your boyfriend of 3 months got a girls number to be friends and right before they were gonna go get food and chill at the beach he finally told her he has a gf but still wants to get to know her but then she declined?

Anonymous 1w

Ummmm if my man did that he wouldn’t be my man anymore. Being friends is fine but that def sounds like a date…. If she’s declining she was interested in him and def thought it was a date and not platonic.

Anonymous 1w

break up

Anonymous 1w

There was obviously some confusion. She may have thought he was single so he should probably mention he has a girlfriend earlier

Anonymous 1w

Well, she definitely thought it was romance. It sounds like he was pretty open about this with you though? If he acted in ways you weren’t blocked out of instead of hiding it, maybe he’s just stupidly oblivious. Buuuuut that’s just a ‘maybe’, yk? How did you learn about this stuff and how did he react? Not enough information

Anonymous

#1 1w

Yeah:( I saw the texts. She said “I don’t feel comfortable with there being attraction there” so she definitely thought he was flirting and it was a date is my guess too..

Anonymous

#4 1w

I saw the messages in his phone that’s how I know :( when I confronted him he said he just wanted a “friend”

Anonymous

OP 1w

Ouch, that’s pretty damning. I’m sorry, but it’s pretty clear. He’s disloyal, dump him.

Anonymous

OP 1w

he tried to cheat