Anonymous #1 1w

Literally! I’m in fucking college. My mom needs to learn THERE IS NO DRESS CODE

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Anonymous #2 1w

Omg yes! I never hear my parents complain about my pants bc I have no ass meanwhile they constantly complain about the shirts or dresses I wear

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Anonymous OP 1w

In my high school they always dress coded the girls with a bust for wearing spaghetti straps but never batted an eye at the flat chested girls wearing the same thing PLUS tiny shorts

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Anonymous #4 1w

I can’t stand that shit either. Ppl should be allowed to wear whatever they want, wherever. It’d be one thing if there’s a dress code like for a formal event or something but on an average day it shouldn’t matter

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Anonymous #5 1w

In my case, the place is a college campus. Mind you I’m an art major so my classes are not extremely professional

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Anonymous #6 1w

Literally!!!!

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Anonymous OP 1w

In that context, yeah it doesn't matter 😭 ignore whoever is trying to get on your case (i lived in sweats during undergrad)

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Anonymous #5 1w

The person on my case is my mom(I live with her and she drives me to school) 😭

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Anonymous OP 1w

Seriously!

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Anonymous OP 1w

GIRL— WTH would be inappropriate about this? That’s crazyyyyy— I

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Anonymous #11 1w

Thing is I only own tight stuff bc I’m a 22 year old woman so like I had to get a whole ass new wardrobe for this job

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Anonymous OP 1w

There’s literally nothing innapropriate about this dress- bruh I literally be wearing the same shi and dude I got told my boobs were hanging out like what??? 😭😭

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Anonymous #11 1w

Then there’s people wearing it anyways. It gave me really bad body dysmorphia so now I’m pretty set on getting a reduction

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Anonymous #14 1w

I agree

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Anonymous #11 1w

Now why the hell am I getting downvoted bruh.

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Anonymous #11 1w

don’t worry queen I upvoted

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Anonymous #1 1w

You will sleep amazing tonight thank you for that 😭

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Anonymous OP 1w

“Back in my day”

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Anonymous #11 1w

Ong your blanket will be warm and your pillow cool 🙏🙏

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Anonymous #11 1w

it’s js so insane tbh, especially during the summer like it’s HOT if i’m wearing smth too revealing i have to wear a sweater. like WAHT !!

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Anonymous #8 1w

Oh yeah I live in FL too. They also don’t allow shorts which is a choice 😀 I worked a similar job back in NY and we could wear shorts

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Anonymous OP 1w

You look gorgeous girl 🥹

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Anonymous #12 1w

My mom told me the same thing! That my boobs were hanging out and that I have acne all over my chest. Meanwhile it’s 1 zip and I live in Louisiana. It’s hot as hell

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sybau

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Anonymous mother_russia 1w

I keep forgetting you’re not a dude

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Shut the fuck up

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Anonymous #2 1w

One time, me and my flat friend wore the EXACT.SAME.OUTFIT, like went to the store one day and got the same shirt and shorts bc they were cute, and she wore hers one day no one said anything I wore mine a couple days later and literally they made me walk around in my gym shirt. I do not miss middle school or high school

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Anonymous #15 1w

Lmao I forget people don’t automatically know I’m a woman

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Anonymous mother_russia 1w

THIS I get told all the time when I am at home with only immediate family that I need to cover up, and that I can’t wear my pjs (a cropped cami/loungewear thing and pj shorts) or anything tight or short bc it’s “unfair” (that’s the exact word used) to my brother and father??? Yet my twin sister (I’m a d cup and she’s an a cup) can wear whatever she wants and no one gaf.

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Anonymous #26 1w

EXACTLY

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1w

Well no duh, of course more cleavage is showing but it’s about in relation to how much cleavage they actually have. I would have to wear a turtleneck to hide all of my cleavage and I don’t want to do that 💀

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Anonymous #27 1w

Felt

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Anonymous mother_russia 1w

ur cleavage does not go up into ur neck girl respectfully

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Anonymous mother_russia 1w

Ur big asf

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Anonymous #34 1w

I personally don't think her outfits are appropriate for her profession but given how viral she is I'm sure she's spoken to the parents in her class and theyre fine with it so ultimately not my business

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Anonymous #30 1w

Ew that’s so inappropriate for her to say

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1w

Obviously I’m exaggerating, but my cleavage will be an inch down from my neck depending on how supportive my bra is. I’m like an H cup right now so like… yeah just normal shirts show cleavage and even very loose shirts around my waist are really tight and “inappropriate” for my boobs.

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Anonymous #35 1w

yk it’s sometimes hard to find things that fit properly as a big boob girl. either we look fat because the shirts are too big or we show a little bit of cleavage and I’d much rather choose the second option because that’s my prerogative. It’s not my fault that other girls might be jealous that I’m more developed in them and guys can’t keep it in their pants

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Anonymous #33 1w

also, frankly, it’s not fair that I’m not allowed to not wear a bra out in public like that’s my choice. It’s not my fault that these bitches have no titties. like I’m allowed to do that shit too I wanna be comfortable when I go out too and like just go to Walmart and shit like let me wear an oversize sweatshirt or even a T-shirt with no bra on and just go out

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Anonymous #33 1w

EXACTLY! It’s really hard to find clothes that fit properly when all clothes are standard sizes but my boobs aren’t standard size. And BOOBS ARENT EVEN SEXUAL!!!!! Like every single human (straight or not) likes boobs because we NEED to. They are comfortable and soft and are just nice and comforting. My friends love them because great hugs and cuddles and children love me and fall asleep instantly when I hold them. I’m tired of being sexualized and told I’m inappropriate for just existing

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Anonymous mother_russia 1w

we should be friends

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Anonymous mother_russia 1w

Also, frankly, one thing I can’t find because of my big boobs that will fit properly is a zip up workout jacket because every single time I zip it up it always unzips fully

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Anonymous #33 1w

So they not have bigger sizes than the ones you buy? (Genuinely curious)

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Anonymous #29 1w

i’ve tried up to 2x and then i can i cant find ones past that

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Anonymous #33 1w

Dang I'm so sorry. It's kind of like we have to pick and choose HOW the clothing won't fit, since we know 9/10 times it won't fit. If it fits the boobs it'll be big in the arms/tummy. If it fits the arms and tummy it'll be too small for the boobs. For me I'd pants fit my booty the waist is HUGE and if it fits my waist then the booty won't fit.

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There are curvy latinas and flat latinas, I think attributing curves to ethnic background is really weird 😭

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The way it absolutely was though

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Saying what I think isn't pushing anything on you. I didn't ask you to change your opinion.

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Why do you keep commenting that to women talking about having big boobs?

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Anonymous mother_russia 1w

bc she’s an asshole and a fucking weirdo

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Anonymous #39 1w

Nothing wrong with it it’s just how some guys act about it is the issue. Yall girls can’t help when you have a thicker appearance and when something happens to slip up and you show “too much” it draws peoples attention and is “unacceptable” but the reality of it is that you can’t help what your body looks like only thing you can do is dress “appropriately” and make sure that you don’t draw too much attention. It’s hard to do that and be “with the trend” or to look “fly” but just try to know….

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Anonymous #39 1w

Your audience and make sure to be careful with the people you’re around cause there are creep ass mfs and weird ass teachers that’ll report some stupid shi. Anyways it’s a big topic and I’m one opinionated ass guy but I hope y’all’s day is great and be safe! Lowk hmu if you ever want to hear about more opinionated ass ideas of mine 😁😁

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“it’s not my fault these bitches have no titties” “girl what did we do to you lmao? also as a latina with a small chest you’re weird asf for saying latinas tend to be on the curvier side…like you know damn well that’s weird to say🤨

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Anonymous #31 1w

Half my family is different kinds of Latino and they come in ALL shapes and sizes so that honestly was so weird to me especially because Latina women are fetishized/stereotyped so often as being curvy but I think 33 is a weirdo in general because she randomly DMed me some crazy shit asking me to ask her questions about her boobs (I guess because she thought I was a guy)

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latin america is literally one of the most genetically diverse regions in the world. there’s indigenous ppl, african, european, asian, you name it. so yeah, saying “latinas tend to be curvier” is a stereotype. you don’t have to say “all’”for it to still be a stereotype. “tend to” is still putting latinas in a box.

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