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Would you date a man who has been cheated on in the past and has issues from it
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Anonymous 16h

I mean I have but to be fair it was like over a year since he ended that relationship, so he may have had more time to heal. If we’re talking issues like being crazy controlling or jealous over everything probably not

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Anonymous 16h

If those issues cause him to be distrustful of everyone and emotionally unavailable, no Might be better to get some therapy for those issues before dating again

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Anonymous 13h

no bc past relationship issues shouldn’t be brought into new ones

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Anonymous 11h

Yes, but not if those issues include being controlling. I deplore cheating and never would, but I’m gonna avoid hanging out with friends or drinking or going out bc it makes him uncomfortable Not saying this to be rude but I see a lot of those complaints on yikyak so I’m aiming my response to that

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Anonymous 13h

no

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Anonymous 11h

yes, some people come with baggage and if they’re the right people - it’s okay to heal together if you had issues and nobody wanted to date you it would feel awful - everyone deserves an opportunity for a chance at growth and change

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Anonymous 31m

maybe? if i liked him i would give it a try, but i’ve had bad experiences with dating insecure men and i would be very wary of any type of jealous or controlling behavior, or like expecting me to be constantly available. if he’s not healed i can’t be expected to take that on for him

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