
95% of men who tried to have sex with women in the last two years resorted to coercive behavior. My brother left a condom in the car one day, and he’s in a frat. It would be naive for me to expect that the men in my immediate family are not part of the coercive 95%. Especially given what frats are known for. I can’t properly vet my own family members because I don’t see them when they’re alone with a sex partner— that would be gross.