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Ask Women 17w
6 months of trying and still haven’t gotten pregnant. My boyfriend thinks he’s the reason ://
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Anonymous 17w

Stop trying not like actually stop but stop trying to line it up, it usually happens when you least expect it.

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Anonymous 17w

How exactly are yall trying? Are you keeping track of your ovulation cycle? How often are you sleeping together? I don't think there's just solely one person to blame unless he's been tested for having a low sperm count or sperm that can't perform

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Anonymous 17w

It is his fault. Just break up and try to conceive with someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

I didn’t track last month because I was very stressed about it. But I’ve had all of the testing done and it shows that I’m fertile. We do it typically every other day. Except last month when we decided to do every day for two weeks. Around the time I typically ovulate. I have regular periods, have gotten testing done that shows that I am ovulating consistently. He hasn’t gotten tested yet, but he’s able to perform consistently. And nothing that would indicate low sperm count

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

We are trying to find someone to do the sperm testing, but he’s still on his parents insurance

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

I say just give it time and the best thing to do is not put so much stress over it for the sake of you, your relationship and your body. I do hope you are blessed with a little one soon

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

That’s what we did last time. And my period is still late. With negative tests. But I’m also sick

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

You are putting too much stress on yourselves, you want to naturally conceive then you need to naturally let it happen. Listen I got pregnant on hormonal pill bc with a condom with my fiancé. There was no intention of being pregnant and yet it happened. Honestly I bet if I tried it wouldn’t have.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

wtf.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Do you want children or not

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

No shit I want a child. But I’m not breaking up with my soon to be fiance. And it could just be a timing issue. Not him. wtf.

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