
physically? i think natural strength is hot. i think too much muscle looks odd but a strong guy that does stuff and works out is really attractive. this goes for slim guys and fat guys- i LOVE a sturdy fat dude (think caseoh). i also like a full head of hair, tattoos, and scars or piercings. personality really does matter though. there’s a lot of attractive men i’ve met that i cannot fucking stand because they’re boring. i like someone playful, smart, empathetic, and confident.
Physically: someone who is taller than me, around the same age or older than me, smiles with their eyes, and not skinny or chubby Personality: someone who makes me feel safe to be myself and confident, someone who I can speak my mind to and be weird and doesn’t make me feel judged but goes along with it, someone who is kind to everyone but also can take a joke, can communicate well, is loyal and his mind and eyes don’t stray, someone who respects my dreams and career, someone who puts effort
I love an emotionally intelligent guy who can talk about various things from science to philosophy to politics to history to memes and comedy to hobbies etc. I hate a “nonchalant” guy who doesn’t seem to have a life beyond looking “cool.” I also look for ambition and kindness and also a want to help others.
When he talks about something he enjoys and his eyes light up. Doesn’t matter if I know anything about the topic I will let him just talk because he’s so handsome when he’s excited. Or when he remembers something I said offhandedly. Like one time I said I had an interest in starting a new hobby and he gets me something to try and start it. It’s the little things. Plus the bigger ones like respecting others and not being afraid to be seen as vulnerable. Love a man who is comfortable with himself