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mother_russia

Reminder to any men in here: it is ALWAYS better to ask and risk killing the mood than not ask and hurt someone. If you are wanting to have sex, ask, even in advance like “are you wanting to have sex sometime tonight?” bc getting consent is a MUST
🚨 NSFW 🚨 We hear all the time about “affirmative consent” but please be honest, do you personally REALLY want someone to ask if you’re down or would it kill your vibe? And where in the process would this happen?
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Yes, please ask first
No, I want him to just do it
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Anonymous 16w

i would even say confirm right before bc she could be in the mood earlier in the evening and then change her mind later on. let’s not forget what the tea video taught us lol

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Anonymous 16w

CONSENT MATTERS! It doesn’t just matter in sex but also between romantic partners.

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Anonymous 16w

Men, if you’re afraid she might get turned off by this, instead ask if she’s down for “pp stuff”. That way you’re not saying any big words and you keep it fun.

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Anonymous 16w

Consent is sexy as hell. And its not just on guys, whoever is initiating is responsible! But consent can be non-vocal, mainly if the person is actively responding without you initiating. But it has to involve willingness from the other person.

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Anonymous 16w

Rules for thee but not for me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Oh absolutely!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

These rules apply to anyone initiating sex. I specifically was addressing the men in this community because the related question was by a man about women. I regularly say the same thing to women and anyone sexually active 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 16w

Absolutely! No idea why that got downvoted

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 16w

Some people are just like that honestly, I completely agree with what you’ve said. Consent is so so important.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16w

Great advice 😂

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