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Girls, HOW DO I TALK TO YOU. Where do I even meet you guys. I really want a gf. I’m 21 and never had one and I feel like I’m missing out on a key part of being young. But no women are attracted to me because I’m 5’4. I have only faced rejection. Help 😢
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Anonymous 1w

women can tell when you are interested in knowing us as a person vs just wanting a girl to date as a status symbol. try making friends with women, join a club, a coed sports team, a job. improve your empathy, charisma, and listening skills, those are way more important to me than height

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Anonymous 1w

it’s mostly a confidence thing. find a shorty shorter is you and get in the practice of making friendly convo

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Exactly this^^ I dated this guy who checked the boxes but he ruined it because I could tell he was trying to speed run the dating and slap a label on us because he wanted to have a gf. He was a nice guy though, but I didn’t want to commit to someone that fast without getting to know them, and I felt like he wasn’t genuinely interested, it was more like a “this is what I’m supposed to ask her to please her” thing.

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