
women can tell when you are interested in knowing us as a person vs just wanting a girl to date as a status symbol. try making friends with women, join a club, a coed sports team, a job. improve your empathy, charisma, and listening skills, those are way more important to me than height
Exactly this^^ I dated this guy who checked the boxes but he ruined it because I could tell he was trying to speed run the dating and slap a label on us because he wanted to have a gf. He was a nice guy though, but I didn’t want to commit to someone that fast without getting to know them, and I felt like he wasn’t genuinely interested, it was more like a “this is what I’m supposed to ask her to please her” thing.