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cried in the mall after multiple failed attempts of trying on jeans and wondering if it will ever get better…please help
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Anonymous 6w

I hate what fashion has done to jeans. They’re all either too skinny for my soccer calves or too enormous to ever fit me. Or they have holes ripped in them for style. And NONE of them have pockets. If I can tolerate shopping long enough to buy a pair of jeans, it will be from the men’s section. Idc if it got a crotch, I’m done.

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Anonymous 6w

This is a canon female experience. So sorry babe. Just remember everyone feels this way legitimately. Once you find a brand that has your perfect fit it gets much better. When you find that fit you find the exact measurements for that size on their chart online. Then you can almost always find close to your fit in other brands via the measurements.

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Anonymous 6w

It absolutely will! Im disabled and for a long time let my own worry about the difficulty of losing weight hold me back but it is so possible, Im currently fasting (18:6) and in a deficit (1400 cals for 5'4 who doesnt work out because of my disability) and Ive lost 10 pounds in a couple weeks, even just that little bit has helped my dysphoria loads, be kind to your body always

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Anonymous 6w

maybe try on a larger size idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Oh also on average women have to try on 6 jeans in one store trip to find one that fits correctly. American sizes are not streamlined at all. It’s not you it’s the jeans always remember that. We are finding things to fit your body not to fit your body in the jeans.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Ugh and the quality is so much worse now! You can buy the same pair in the same brand same size two years later and it’s entire different cuz they cheaper out on material.

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