I hate what fashion has done to jeans. They’re all either too skinny for my soccer calves or too enormous to ever fit me. Or they have holes ripped in them for style. And NONE of them have pockets. If I can tolerate shopping long enough to buy a pair of jeans, it will be from the men’s section. Idc if it got a crotch, I’m done.
This is a canon female experience. So sorry babe. Just remember everyone feels this way legitimately. Once you find a brand that has your perfect fit it gets much better. When you find that fit you find the exact measurements for that size on their chart online. Then you can almost always find close to your fit in other brands via the measurements.
It absolutely will! Im disabled and for a long time let my own worry about the difficulty of losing weight hold me back but it is so possible, Im currently fasting (18:6) and in a deficit (1400 cals for 5'4 who doesnt work out because of my disability) and Ive lost 10 pounds in a couple weeks, even just that little bit has helped my dysphoria loads, be kind to your body always