Ask Women on Yik Yak | Have a friend (not that close anymore) that seems to only ever want to do things on her terms? When I initiate she's either busy or im on a time crunch because she has plans but when she initiates its always because of something she wants to do like eat-

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Ask Women 11w

Have a friend (not that close anymore) that seems to only ever want to do things on her terms? When I initiate she's either busy or im on a time crunch because she has plans but when she initiates its always because of something she wants to do like eat-

Anonymous 11w

i think the friendship is easy over. You shouldnt have to basically beg to hang out. you could have a conversation about it, and wait and see if it changes,

Anonymous 11w

I make sacrifices to hang with her but she doesn't ever. She just texted me a few days after rejecting my proposal to go eat out but I don't know how to finally tell her how I really feel without being mean or ruining what we have

Anonymous

OP 11w

Honestly it sounds like you have plenty of ground to stand on without it being mean. I would say accept her offer and while you're together, say something straightforward like "Hey, I feel like whenever I try to make plans, you aren't interested; is there a way we could plan things a little more cooperatively?" (or whatever – make it sound like you)

Anonymous

#1 11w

Probably a good plan

Anonymous

#2 11w

Im not necessarily begging to hang out Im just frustrated that things always seem to be when she wants to do it and I bend to her will. I have other friends and she's good to talk to which is why I am hesitant to just drop the friendship im just frustrated with how she behaves at times