Communicate with him on what makes you feel good and use positive reinforcement so that he doesn’t feel shame about it and instead gravitates in a good way to the style that you like - don’t tell him things like “this is bad” or something that would wound his self confidence, but instead when he hits the right spot make it obvious in a positive way

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just point him to the clit and have him try certain things out, tell him what you like and dont like or give him ideas

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just have him try different things and tell him what feels good. like be extremely vocal about what’s working and what’s not. might be awkward at first but it’ll be worth it

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Usually a guy doing anything near my vagina with his tongue does nothing for me. Have him spell the alphabet on your clit and when you find a move that you really like have him repeat that move when you say “more.”

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Have him read She Comes First, or listen to it on Spotify.

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