Anonymous #1 2w

What is your definition of love bombing?

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Anonymous #1 2w

So how is taking care of someone and spoiling the emotional and psychological abuse?

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Anonymous OP 2w

To create dependency. It also depends on why you would want to spoil and take care of someone.

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Anonymous #1 2w

Right. So in your mind, you have a trauma response/reaction to it from a poor experience. And you’re projecting your fears onto what I’m saying. It never occurred to you that I’m just that type of guy that enjoys taking care of his woman. In your mind I have a sinister ulterior motive. Lacking that awareness is emotionally immaturity and requires therapy

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Anonymous OP 2w

Or they're just speaking from experience.

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Anonymous OP 2w

I can see your point but I don’t agree with it. I’m pointing out the reason why women would not want this and this is because of the dependency that they now have. Happens all the time. What do you seek getting out of spoiling and taking care of your woman? Just someone to come home to? Keep a nice house? There is nothing wrong with that, I’m just trying to understand where your logic is.

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Anonymous #2 2w

That’s what I said, is it not?

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Anonymous OP 2w

No you said they're projecting or lacking awareness. You asked a question, they told you what vibe it gives off, and you said they're emotionally immature and need therapy.

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