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What percentage of men do you REALLY meet who don’t have much ambition or care in their future? I’ve seen women complain they keep meeting men who go to school/work, gym, games, and wonder why they don’t get dates. I’m a guy, I don’t see it.
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Anonymous 11w

like probably 40-50% of the dates i’ve been on. if they had a direction in life, it was incredibly vague. they went to college not out of personal interest but solely because their parents wanted them to. they had no idea what they wanted their life to look like post grad.

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Anonymous 11w

I've met a lot of guys in my past that only cared ans had ambitions because it meant getting a girlfriend out of it or they're doing it for their girlfriend and not for themselves

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Anonymous 11w

i can’t really give an exact percentage, but i’ve met quite a bit of men who literally had no life goals or were all talk when it came to their “ambitions”. just surviving on vibes and hoping luck was coming their way

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Anonymous 11w

i honestly havent met a lot of men with ambition. Im not currently looking for anything so anyone i have talked to wasnt trying to impress me, however most of them want money to have the money, and thats the extent (to those i have talked to) of their ambition

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Anonymous 11w

Majority of men that I meet have no ambition

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

Since I’m assuming you’re a guy with ambition you probably surround yourself with like minded individuals so you don’t really see it

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