When my life is a mess, my significant other is the only thing helping my mood and mental health. They are uplifting me. Sounds like that’s not the case for you so maybe not the right relationship

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no but that’s a very normal thing to do when you’re young and your s/o isn’t like your spouse

11

Only if they’re definitely the type of partner that is holding you back or preventing your progress because you’ve communicated your desire to change/grow etc. and they’re making it difficult. But if you’ve told them what you need and they’re a good partner, they will help you build the life you want and make things easier and not harder like #2 said

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I’m a guy, so like take this with a grain of salt, and sorry if I’m overstepping my bounds: At times when I feel like my life is a mess, I’m struggling or whatever, my girlfriend is my source of strength and stability. If anything those are the moments when I am most reminded why I need her and love her. If your present situation is making you have doubts about your relationship, then maybe you should reconsider. I don’t think you should feel that way with a significant other, but that’s just me

6

no because ur SO should support and help u in times of hardship

5

I've done it and regretted it

4

Have you communicated this to your partner? They deserve to know if you need to change your priorities

1

Yes

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