
Definitely agree. The issue is when men openly embrace you, it gives you the chance to hurt them more. While I know love itself is a risk and about trust, you have to get the man to trust you and he’ll open up on his own if you prove it’s worth it. For most women, there’s no reason to because you’ll end up worse than before. If you’re a good and patient woman for him, he’ll be an emotional yet strong man for you
To any man reading this, never surrender your emotions to women, it’s just a trap, they will use it against you later. I’ve spoken to so many guys who’ve had girls use it against them, or if they cried in front of their girl, she got turned off by the “weakness”, and left him because she “didn’t see him the same way” anymore One even left him for crying at his mom’s funeral. No joke. Don’t fall for it. Don’t open up to them.