Look at the prospective father’s head, imagine that splitting you open. Big melon 🍈 is a hard pass
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Anonymous3w
My brother was 10 pounds and my mom was 40 and I somehow think she was completely fine
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Anonymous3w
biggest fear- birth
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Anonymous3w
Wouldn’t you get a c-section if that was the situation?
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Anonymous3w
Contractions were way worse than coochie ripping
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Anonymous3w
same
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Anonymous3w
Look into birthing positions & how to relax your muscles - the more relaxed you are the more your body is able to do its job - laying on your back is actually more likely to make you rip than other positions
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Anonymous3w
That’s also why some women choose water birth because it helps with relaxing muscles etc
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Anonymous#13w
No, it’s called an episiotomy. It’s a fairly common practice to cut the opening to prevent tearing
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Anonymous#43w
YEA THIS ONE
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Anonymous#63w
Those are considered geriatric pregnancies:(
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Anonymous#33w
I don’t ever plan on having children this was for the general public
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Anonymous#63w
Oh my bad, I think it’s insane to call it geriatric though ngl
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Anonymous#33w
Yea fr let’s not put a time limit on women, we can just survive and thrive not be mothers
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Anonymous#63w
Exactlyyy
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Anonymous#33w
technically yes, but it’s also when my mom had me (I was her first) and tbh was the right choice for her and her life
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Anonymous#83w
It’s better for a lot of people to wait
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Anonymous#33w
yeah. more financial stability, more time finding The One, and you get to live your life for a bit. obvs nothing against ppl who have kids young but waiting does work out well for a lot of ppl.