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I’m in a relationship with my gf for about 5 months, and I asked her type before dating me and she said really tall men and some more characteristics. And her celeb crushes have always been really tall men, and I’m like an avg height. I feel so insecure😭
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Anonymous 5d

#1 is a psycho and lacks empathy. Just talk to your girl about it

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Anonymous 6d

You're r*tarded. She's dating you, not her celeb crushes. Get over it

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Anonymous 6d

Thoughts?

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Anonymous 3d

Height is one thing, a “type” is one thing, but a “type” is really just a pattern, like someone seems to have liked a certain train frequently in the past, that doesn’t mean that’s ALL they like! If she’s with you, she thinks you’re hot/handsome/cute for soooo many other reasons than the few you remember her mentioning before dating. I promise you, she thinks you’re hot 😉 don’t worry

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Anonymous 3d

Trait**

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

What’s with the hostility? Damn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

You deserve the hostility. You're worried about your gf having a crush on celebrities and made up people. Why don't you just zoom out a bit, self-reflect to realize that you're being a fucking dumbass, and then seek some help to stop making your problems your gf's.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

How would I not feel insecure when my gf expresses attraction to someone with a trait I don’t necessarily have? And it’s not really a celeb but a student athlete who plays for my schools basketball team

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Dude. You need to talk to a professional about that. Humans have yearned since the beginning of time, and if you can't accept that a human you're dating may be attracted to men that aren't you, then you might want to stick with the AI girlfriends (or seek professional help).

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

It’s not about her finding them attractive it’s about her expressing who she finds attractive to me? Especially when we don’t have shit in common tf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Then use your fucking words to let her know that you don't want to talk about those subjects (and pray she doesn't realize you're a fucking loser and leaves you). And maybe also seek professional help.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Honestly, although #1 1,000% could’ve calmed down and worded that normally, they have a point (without the unnecessary hostility). If she’s dating you, she’s genuinely ATTRACTED to you. (This should REALLY be made clear if you guys are intimate because women genuinely can’t be intimate with people they aren’t attracted to like some men can, trust me)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

Thank you , you’re too kind❤️

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