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Idc if my friends meet guys when we’re out, but one of my friends has literally left me out at a bar alone. I kid u not I went to the bathroom, came back to no text or anything she just went home with a guy leaving me alone at the bar. like I legit am
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Anonymous 1w

I would. Especially when it comes to being in public places or bars there’s a bit of a girl code that you shouldn’t leave each other alone

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Anonymous 1w

That’s not your friend girl

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Anonymous 1w

I’m happy if friends meet a guy and whatever but she continuously does shit like this and her entire night revolves around bringing a guy home. I feel bad bc she’s had like mental health problems so ik her pattern of thinking is a little off…but like come on…should I just drop her as a friend?

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Anonymous 1w

Did you make sure she was safe? She could have been drugged

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Like she always talks to guys when we’re out and kinda ignores me for them but I was BAFFLED at how she could leave me at the bar without texting me or telling me she was leaving. She waited till the entire next day to say “I’m sorry I disappeared on you” like what ?? I literally feel like she said to the guy “lets leave without her knowing”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Mind you it was just us, we didn’t go in a group. So she left me COMPLETELY alone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah that’s a big no. It’d be one thing if you were in a group and she left you with people but leaving your friend alone at a bar is a safety risk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Yes. I begged her to leave and said I’d wait with her for an uber and she literally just ignored me to talk to the guy. I would have been concerned if that was out of the ordinary for her but she does that everytime we go out. I kept saying I don’t want to leave her and she said no I just don’t want to go home yet I’ll be okay I have a ride soon

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

What else am I supposed to do, I can’t manhandle her and carry her out she literally ignored me trying to come up with solutions then told me to leave

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Oh, if she does this a lot, then yeah it’s not your responsibility

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