Ask Women on Yik Yak | Anyone else ever struggled with re becoming friends with an old friend that’s done you dirty? We’re on good terms now and it’s been a year since everything happened but I still hate her secretly, I tried so hard to stop but she did me awfully

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Anyone else ever struggled with re becoming friends with an old friend that’s done you dirty? We’re on good terms now and it’s been a year since everything happened but I still hate her secretly, I tried so hard to stop but she did me awfully

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Anonymous 5d

you should like slowly distance urself

Anonymous 5d

What do I do? She’s my roommate so I can’t really never see her again but I despise her and idk if I’ll ever get over what she did to me

Anonymous 5d

Rebuilding trust just takes time and effort on both sides

Anonymous 4d

Bring it up again and talk through it.

Anonymous

#1 4d

She’s still doing little things that remind me of why we stopped being friends to begin with. That’s why I don’t think I can even keep this friendship anymore it’s already been a year and I still hate her just as much as

Anonymous

hellraiser 4d

I’m 100% going to. It’s hard bc she has 0 other friends so she basically forces herself to hangout with me and tries to make me feel guilty if I don’t hangout with her, but I don’t care anymore. I’m done being a good friend to her when she’s been such a bad friend to me

Anonymous

OP 4d

Well in that case, it might not be worth it. Have you had an honest conversation with her about everything? Can you tell if she’s trying to put in effort to change? Old habits die hard, but if you see some improvements, I think that’s a good sign at least. You’re not obligated though to still be friends.

Anonymous

#3 4d

I can’t. She basically “banned” us talking about it saying she was drained having to always apologize to me last year…. She knew she was making me upset but victimized herself basically saying she had no time to deal with me being upset about it.