
i commented the original post and my response would be that marriage is a bigger commitment than dating/long term relationship and to me it isn’t a hassle to wait until marriage it’s a choice i’m making willingly. and divorce is always a possibility, marriage isn’t foolproof and that’s okay. but i would rather wait until we’re fully committed to each other long term since i think sex is obviously very intimate and should be saved for the right time. :)
also tbh it’s less about one person being the only one you ever do that with and more about seeing sex as sacred and something saved for the confines on marriage. i’m not religious so i think in the case of divorce i would wait until marriage again if i entered another serious relationship after the divorce. to me marriage isnt end, it’s the beginning of certain parts of the relationship. there’s no guarantee that it will work out