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This isn’t disrespectful or anything but does the fear of divorce not cross ur mind when waiting for marriage? Not to discourage waiting for marriage, I think it’s a strong mindset, but it isn’t an absolutely perfect “the end” yk?
chat is it possible to find a guy that doesn’t watch porn and wants to wait until marriage?? (i’m not religious) (am i cooked)
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Anonymous 9w

Stats I’ve seen and heard abt say that couples that wait till marriage have lower divorce rates than couples that dont.

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Anonymous 7w

i commented the original post and my response would be that marriage is a bigger commitment than dating/long term relationship and to me it isn’t a hassle to wait until marriage it’s a choice i’m making willingly. and divorce is always a possibility, marriage isn’t foolproof and that’s okay. but i would rather wait until we’re fully committed to each other long term since i think sex is obviously very intimate and should be saved for the right time. :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Yeah. Also higher body count means higher divorce chance, for anyone getting married (not a gendered thing as double standard dude bros would say).

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

That makes sense tbh, I can see the correlation

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

also tbh it’s less about one person being the only one you ever do that with and more about seeing sex as sacred and something saved for the confines on marriage. i’m not religious so i think in the case of divorce i would wait until marriage again if i entered another serious relationship after the divorce. to me marriage isnt end, it’s the beginning of certain parts of the relationship. there’s no guarantee that it will work out

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