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my partner has a bad day and i asked if i can come see him. he said he had a lot to do and doesn’t want to see anyone rn. just checked his loc and he’s at the movies with his roommate. it makes me upset, any help?
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Anonymous 4w

okay i totally get how you feel, but he’s his own person. i’m sure it’s nothing personal and he just wants his own space. all that matters if you offered to be there with him. at the end of the day you both love each other and know you have each other. let him enjoy the movies and recover from whatever the day he had.

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Anonymous 4w

he told me he doesn’t want me to see him upset and ik he’s going through a hard time mentally rn. it just still hurts he can hang out with friends and not me

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Anonymous 3w

okay being honest, if he can’t be around you when he’s in a bad mood for whatever reason and isn’t properly communicating with you about what he’s doing or what he needs, that’s not sustainable in a relationship. i understand why that feels so shitty, that’s how it was with my ex. it’s not nice to be in that position

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Anonymous 3w

you can only do so much to communicate on your end and try to change things, you need his help with that too tho, keep that in mind, wish you the best

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

ik but he’s going through a rough patch and never wants to see me bc he doesnt want me to be around him when hes in a bad mood. he can let others be around him but not me? how long am i supposed to sit still if he refuses to let me in

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