Anonymous #1 1w

8. 5/8 in school the rest online. Most of them are urban. A few common traits are shyness, anxiety and indecisiveness. I am normally the one to initiate dates, convos, etc.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Okay. What would you say is the differences between them?

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Anonymous #1 1w

Their family situations, their household income and interests are the first things that come to mind. They also all leaned left politically but most separated themselves to a pretty large extent

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Anonymous OP 1w

Damn maybe you really just unlucky Did any of them seem enthusiastic about being with you? Did you sense any of them faking what they felt? Maybe some of them were attention seeking

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Anonymous #1 1w

The enthusiasm ranged mostly depending on how shy they were. In hindsight I almost always knew when they were lying but despite all this I still for some reason have faith that it will be different. That’s my leading theory but if that’s the case theres gotta be something I can do right. Bc if this keeps going on then soon enough I’ll just be numb and I don’t want that anymore

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeah once again sorry you had to be shat on like that so many times

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Anonymous #1 1w

Is there really nothing I can do?

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Anonymous OP 1w

How quickly did you get into a relationship

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Anonymous #1 1w

I’ve never been in a relationship, that’s why I said “a romantic back and forth” rather than just saying relationship. The longest I was talking to someone was 3 months. It’s a lot of time wasted with nothing to show for it

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Anonymous OP 1w

Ah okay Well see if you can find not severely indecisive women / confirm several times that they want a potential relationship and NOT just talking / make sure they engage with you and not just about themselves You deserve a good woman

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Anonymous #1 1w

If there is any single women who isn’t indecisive then she might just be an angel. To put it frankly I don’t even think women like that exist. Like I said most of them I made on apps it’s supposed to be clear from the start. Yeah I tend to speak 40% or so of the time

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Anonymous OP 1w

Last time I checked I exist, so don’t worry there’s decisive women

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Anonymous #1 1w

And ur single?? 😭😭

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Anonymous OP 1w

🫩 decisive and too picky for my own good 🤣

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Anonymous #1 1w

I mean yeah the other part is they can’t be picky enough to not choose me 😭

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Anonymous #2 1w

And lies as in leading you on? Or in what way?

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