coming from a girl i can use it as a way of showing affection, but every person has different sex drives and ideas of intimacy. at the end of the day if he’s your fiancé you guys will be eachother’s person for the rest of your lives. sex is not everything, but if it’s important to one and not the other it may cause issues down the line just like any other preference. in my experience it’s always best to be with someone who has the same sex drive as you so you don’t feel obligated (p1)