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guys can i break up w my bf? he genuinely treats me so so well and is the first guy to do so, but idk anymore?? we’ve been dating for a two yrs in dec, we r both only 20 and he has been talking abt moving in and i always doge it. thoughts
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Anonymous 4w

Have no regrets, if you’re not feeling it anymore it’s probably never going to come back, forever is a long time and it’s even longer if you’re not happy xx

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Anonymous 4w

i have no context but first of all u can always break up with ur bf that’s entirely ur choice at any point, second of all not wanting to move in with a significant other is a completely valid and normal boundary that u can share with him

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Anonymous 4w

context: we are in the same group and have been dating since freshman yr of college, we r now going to be our 3rd yrs

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Anonymous 4w

Do you want to break up or do you just not want to move in with him? Or both?

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Anonymous 4w

Do what you think you have too, but also maybe try communicating first and maybe he will be receptive

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Anonymous 4w

If you aren’t into it anymore… leave. Let both of you go find someone else that make you deliriously happy all the time.

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Anonymous 5w

moving in with you? 🚩

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

only if he gets into grad school around me

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 4w

i know i can break up w him but im asking how bad would it be if i did

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

that doesn’t matter though, if you don’t see a future with someone then you don’t see a future with them and ur doing both of y’all a favor by ending it sooner to waste less time and effort from the both of u

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 4w

yeah i can see what u mean

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

yeah idk sounds wild if it’s right it’s right but if it’s wrong just know it’s okay to be like fuck no

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

After two years?? That makes total sense what

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

wanting to move in with your partner of 2 years while at college is probably the most non-red flag I’ve ever seen in my life wtf are you smoking

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

i will!

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