Ask Women on Yik Yak | I’ve asked my man to eat me out multiple times over the past few weeks. We have reg sex just not what I really want. I’ve told him so many times but he just doesn’t want to because his “tongue will hurt after” is this valid or does he hate me.

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I’ve asked my man to eat me out multiple times over the past few weeks. We have reg sex just not what I really want. I’ve told him so many times but he just doesn’t want to because his “tongue will hurt after” is this valid or does he hate me.

Anonymous 21h

If he doesn’t want to that’s valid. His comfort is also important. That also means your comfort is important. I would have a conversation about how you feel about that and what compromises can happen

Anonymous 21h

I don’t think he hates you, but he should be trying to go out of his comfort zone. If there is something that he wants to try on you that you might be slightly uncomfortable with, you could suggest to let him do it if he eats you out.

Anonymous 21h

not a valid reason lol

Anonymous 21h

I think it’s a little selfish. I mean yeah sex should be fun and pleasure for both involved but he can’t just not satisfy you

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Anonymous 21h

has he ever even tried it ? it doesn’t hurt your tongue unless you’re going for a while, it sounds like he’s just making excuses. he could just do it until his tongue hurts then stop. he should be wanting to get you off not just please himself. if he’s against it for some other reason maybe he could do another form of clit stim to make things more satisfying for you. u rlly need to sit him down and explain you’re not satisfied

Anonymous 14h

Sounds like he has another reason for not wanting to that he’s not telling you. If his tongue hurts he can just stop

Anonymous 21h

Eating pussy is the best. Sex should be selfless between partners.

Anonymous 21h

Ngl that’s a lil selfish of him, i personally believe the point of sex is either to procreate or satisfy the woman, if non of those are happening it’s basically just masturbating but using a human.

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Anonymous

#1 21h

I would disagree. The goal is that both people feel good. Boundaries are incredibly important in sex

Anonymous

#1 19h

Bruh what did I say wrong, am I not speaking fax tho😭😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous

#4 19h

Yea but a man can easily get satisfied it’s the woman who really needs it, it’s way more common for men to get pleased than women

Anonymous

#1 18h

“the point of sex is either to procreate or satisfy the woman” is not fax it’s just weird to say. Satisfying both partners should be the priority, not just one because of their gender

Anonymous

#1 18h

It’s not always the woman who really needs it. I know a couple where the woman enjoys sex less but she enjoys making her partner feel good. It’s what works for their relationship and it makes both of them happy. Also just because it is more common for men to be pleased doesn’t make their pleasure less important

Anonymous

#4 18h

I say that because as a guy I know it’s incredibly easy to get a nut off I can jerk it for like a couple min and nut but on average there’s women who don’t get pleased as often as men, additionally women have their cycles and they go through different emotions and phases plus they gotta work deal with stress etc at the least a boyfriend can do for his woman is please her

Anonymous

#1 15h

So you’re not even a woman? This is Ask Women. Please let women have their space to have their own voices. It seems like you care about women in the bedroom but remember to care about women outside if it too

Anonymous

#4 15h

I agree you do have a point, I’m js speaking my truth tho

Anonymous

#1 15h

You are welcome to do that in Ask Men. Or at the very least mention you are a man in your original comment. Otherwise the assumption in this group is that women are answering. Then your comment just appears to be a man speaking for women

Anonymous

#1 4h

Everyone disagreeing but omg ur right asf